Ten Principles to The Zen of Attraction
1. Promise Nothing
Just do what you most enjoy doing.
Hidden benefit: You will always over-deliver.
2. Offer Nothing
Just share what you have with those who express an interest in it.
Hidden benefit: Takes the pressure off of wanting other people to see you as valuable or important.
3. Expect Nothing
Just enjoy what you already have. It’s plenty.
Hidden benefit: You will realize how complete your life is already.
4. Need Nothing
Just build up your reserves and your needs will disappear.
Hidden benefit: Your boundaries will be extended and filled with space.
5. Create Nothing
Just respond well to what comes to you.
Hidden benefit: Openness.
6. Hype Nothing
Just let quality sell by itself.
Hidden benefit: Trustability.
7. Plan Nothing
Just take the path of least resistance.
Hidden benefit: Achievement will become effortless.
8. Learn Nothing
Just let your body absorb it all on your behalf.
Hidden benefit: You will become more receptive to what you need to know in the moment.
9. Become No One
Just be more of yourself.
Hidden benefit: Authenticity.
10. Change Nothing
Just tell the truth and things will change by themselves.
Hidden benefit: Acceptance.
Source: “Ten Principles To The Zen Of Attraction”, from grahamenglish.net
Anonymous said: So I used to go out with this guy and we loved each other but then I moved and after a year he broke up with me and eventually went out with my friend which really hurt but I told him I wanted him to be happy. Later he told me he still had feelings for me but everyone said they were good togetherand he didn't know what to do. He ended up breaking up with her and then started treating me special, months have passed but a week ago I think they got back together and I don't know what to do it hurts
I’ve been through something similar, I think the most important thing is to concentrate on yourself because if he was meant to be with you and loved you you would still be together. Don’t forget you deserve to be happy too!